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A Not So Traditional Fish Burial

I was getting my son his breakfast this morning and glanced over at the fish tanks. I noticed immediately Swimmy was no longer “swimming” it was more like a float. My son immediately registered the look on my face and went over to the fish tank. In the sweetest, tiny voice he said, “Is Swimmy dead? Is he dead?” I remained silent. Trying to gather my thoughts on what to say to him. “Is Swimmy dead?” he asked again. Sadly, he was. A closer look confirmed. Then my heart broke. His little heart was broken and the tears flowed. I got him Swimmy four years ago. He was too little to go on the canoe trip with his brothers so we went and got a fishy. He’s taken care of him ever since. Never had to remind him to feed him. He would have conversations with Swimmy daily. Now my baby was crushed.

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We dried up the tears and off to school he went. I told him we would send Swimmy down the Potty Pipeline when I got home from work. Later in the day I got a text from husband saying the kids want a “proper burial” for Swimmy. No sewer for this finned friend. It was requested that I go get a “casket” and “headstone.” My only worry was the neighborhood cat posse looking for a snack and digging up my yard, but my husband made provisions. He should be safe.

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So when I got home I attended my very first fish burial complete with Taps and it went like this.

REST IN PEACE DEAR SWIMMY.

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