The Bookshelf – Aesop Fables

Aesop fables

This was the BEST Target $1 bin purchase ever. The boys absolutely LOVE it! They have been reading these classic fables all weekend. My husband has been enjoying them too. I never realized how many fables there were. There has to be close to 100 fables in this book…for a DOLLAR! Timeless tales with great life lessons. It’s a win!

The Bookshelf – My Childhood Favorites

I went on a rant last week about my kids lack of ambition for reading. It’s been pretty frustrating. I started thinking back to some of the books I enjoyed when I started reading. I spouted out the titles, the plots, and the characters…no bites. They had no interest. Oh well, the battle continues.

These were some of my favorite chapter books. Later I moved onto The Babysitters Club, Sweet Valley High, and anything by Christopher Pike.

child favorite booksWhat were some of your favorites growing up?

 

Needing Some Advice

This parenting thing is hard. Enjoyable but also hard. I really don’t want to screw up my kid. We do our best to approach every situation with love and understanding…but do we always handle it the right way? Is there really a right way? I know there isn’t just one RIGHT way for things but I’m having trouble figuring out the right way (for my family) to handle the current situation.

Reading.

My kids have to read every night for school. 15-20 minutes of reading. No big deal, right? Ha! It’s so dramatic in my house. I always thought I would have kids that LOVE to read. My husband and I would read them multiple books every night when they were little. It was our routine. Three books a night. They each picked one out. We LOVED books! What has happened!?

They’re lazy! That’s it. The fact that they don’t want to achieve just the bare standard is what is troubling me the most. Reading is the MOST important thing they are going to learn academically. Everything they learn in any subject is affected by their strength in reading. It affects, their spelling and writing…which snowballs into every other aspect of school.

Our arguments focus on:

  • Picking an age appropriate book. If you’re in 3rd grade, you need a 3rd grade level book, not a first grade book. If you’re in 2nd grade you can’t be asking to read Good Night Moon! Show some ambition!!
  • Time. “It takes too long!” It’s 15 minutes of your life kid.
  • They’re sitting with a book in front of them and pretending to read. I don’t have time to sit with each one individually in the evening and have them read to me.
  • When I do sit with them, it’s torture. They whine and ask for me to read every other page. They ask if they’re done yet. And the 1st grader fidgets the entire time. It’s maddening.

The problem:

I don’t want to stress them out and try to create over-achievers here, but I want achievers. Make the standard at least! I have no idea how to approach this. I’ve lectured on the importance of reading and excelling, but I’ve gotten no where. I’ve gotten books upon books that I know they will love. How do I make them love reading!? I’m baffled.

Any advice?

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