It would have been her birthday today. I spent the day sharing my memories with my boys. Remembering her birthday parties where we were usually requested to wear green, it was St. Patrick’s day after all. I remember one time when her party was at Papa Gino’s restaurant and I had to wear this awful green button down shirt with this Victorian type collar…I hated it, but it was the only green I had. I recall a time when her mom made green ice cubes, I thought it was the coolest thing ever.
The boys like to hear the stories about us going frog hunting, making May baskets, and the time I lost my shoe in a mud hole and she carried me all the way to the house. She was good like that. She eased my sleepover anxiety, made funny faces, and helped dig a hole to China. The memories kept going all day long. I decided the elementary school playground would be the best place to sing happy birthday. I had never taken the boys there before. Gosh, I hadn’t been there in years. I pulled into the parking lot and there it was, still there. Many things had changed but the “big cheese” was still there. I introduced the boys to the “big cheese” and we sang and let the balloons fly up to heaven.
The boys played and I sat and remembered all the games we used to play. I thought about many friends today. Friends I haven’t seen in so long. Elementary school, middle school, high school. Precious memories. We then headed to the cemetery to leave some flowers and watched as a red-tailed hawk circled above us. Happy birthday dear friend. I think of you often and our adventures are still alive in my little guys. Lots of love. xo
Such a precious day it sounds like you spent with your boys. <3 I'm sorry for the loss you've experienced. The memories sound wonderful. 🙂
Thank you for sharing this. Sounds like a beautiful celebration of life today. Please accept my condolences on the loss of your loved one.
Thanks so much. It was nice to spend the day remembering and sharing it all with the little guys.
Wow! What a nice way to remember her and keep her in your heart! Sorry for your loss.
Such a lovely post, by the look of your pictures I bet your friend is smiling down at you. X
Very moving. 🙂
Sounds like a bittersweet day; missing a friend who is gone but embracing the present with your beautiful boys.
That was a wonderful post – thanks for sharig your memories. … you dug a hole to china? cool idea ;o)
we got a lot of worms out of that hole!